Walter Hayhow Many of you are aware that Mr. Walter Hayhow was battling cancer. His battle began in 2007, shortly after his retirement in 2006. Walter passed away peacefully the morning of Tuesday, July 29, 2008. His presence and smiles are missed in the labs, offices, Hardy Tower hallways, and around the SDSU campus.

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2 04/09/08 In the 21 years I have known you, you have always smile, always calm, and always willing to help others. You are perhaps the most approachable person I know. Those who missed the opportunity to get to know you at a personal level truly missed a lot. Most are not even aware what a brilliant mind you have. Not only you attended both Medical School and Engineering School but you are also well read. Since your retirement, I missed our regular conversation on many topics. I enjoyed our talks in the many diverse subjects such as Evolution, Religion, Ethics, Ecology, Conservation, Politics, Planetary Science, Geology, Entomology, and Technology. You introduced me to many great books and authors. I also want to thank you for the many articles you shared with me from the 'Science' magazine. They are not easy reading but the breakthrough science articles are well worth the time spent. Over the years I have learned so much from you and I'm truly greatful for that. It is heart breaking to hear about the challenges that are facing you now. Even during this difficult time you still managed to remain rational. I don't know how you do that. Thank you for all the helping hand that you had given me over the years. Most importantly thank you for your knowledge and friendship. Wish you, Mimi, and your extended family well. Rofiee Harun colleague and friend CHHS Dean's Office

3 04/09/08 Walter - I know you wore many hats in the GSPH and accomplished a great deal. But I think your good nature is what everyone immediately thinks of when they speak of you. You made SDSU a better, more enjoyable place! Michael Huang colleague CHHS Dean's Office

4 04/09/08 Hey Buddy being Acting Director in '96 and 7 really sucked, but you are one of the people who made it survivable and kept me from needing psychotherapy...your attitude was always what you show above in your photo on this web page, enjoying and knowing life at the same time. I didn't ever have much to ask of you, but when I did it it was always responded to quickly and competently. I have met few people like you in all of my days. your pal John Elder friend

5 04/10/08 Walter, We shared in life's journey only briefly but enough time for me to understand why you are so admired. Your sense of humor is engaging (dry with a twist of lemon) and the sparkle in your eyes always made me smile. Thank you for welcoming me with open arms. Hugs and kisses, Suchi Ayala colleague Graduate School of Public Health

6 04/10/08 Walter: You are simply one of my most fond memories surrounding San Diego State and the Graduate School of Public Health. I love you buddy.............. You're special. Stephen Bender colleague

7 04/10/08 hi walter, just thinking of you, as always. miss our chats and especially updates of your beautiful family and pics of your granddaughters that lite up your eyes when you spoke of them. you truly are a special person that has touched so many lives with your gentle personality; always a hello, smile, and positive outlook of life, whenever and where ever you saw people. I am blessed to have had you as a colleague and now as a friend. fondly, Jane Hong friend

8 04/10/08 Walter, You know how much I miss having you around the GSPH. You should be gratified that no one as yet can do your job! My thoughts and prayers are always with you. Alma Koch colleague Graduate School of Public Health

9 04/10/08 Walter, I have fond memories of you and I trying to impart science/health knowledge to students in the GSPH in the 80's. Actually, as I remember it, you were better at it than I was!!! I always enjoyed being in the laboratory with you. When I left San Diego I wished that I could take you with me, but I knew that New York didn't have much that would attract you. I have never been associated with a colleague who had the dedication to students that you have. I have also discovered that your interest in the really important things in life, family, friends, etc. are what our time on this planet is really about. San Diego State University benefited greatly from the time you spent at the GSPH. Thank you! Jack Conway colleague College of Public Health, University of Oklahoma

10 04/10/08 Walter, Your absence was keenly felt when you retired, not just because you were great at your job, but because you approached it with enthusiasm, caring, and an infectious smile. The days around here are a little dimmer without you to brighten them. Wherever life's journey takes you, know that we, your friends, are keeping you forever in our thoughts and prayers. John Alcaraz colleague Graduate School of Public Health

11 04/10/08 Hey, Walter! I'm so glad that they set up this site for you! What a great way for us to send you a virtual card. It's, like, something YOU would have thought of! (Did you?) Here's one of my favorite quotes, by Ralph Waldo Emerson: The greatest gift is a portion of thyself. It makes me think of you! Just wanted to send you a hug and wish you a good day and all my best! Margy Schochenmaier colleague Dean's Office, CHHS

12 04/10/08 Hi Walter: Everyone else has said it so well that I can just echo the feelings of appreciation for your cheerful attitude and willingness to help that never seem to falter. I hope that you are cheered by the thoughts and prayers of the many you've touched. Thanks for all your help over the years! Jill Waalen colleague GSPH

13 04/10/08 Hi, Walter! You are missed and loved at GSPH and thought of often. Thanks for all you did around here and for sharing your amazing problem-solving skills with all of us. I hope you are feeling better each day. Wishing you and your family our thoughts and blessings. Teresa Dodd Butera colleague GSPH

14 04/10/08 Hi Walter, I also wanted to send my warmest wishes and prayers to you. From day one, you always had kind hellos and smiles for me that were very much appreciated over the years. Thinking of you now, and sending lots and lots of positive energy your way...! Terry Conway colleague

15 04/10/08 Hi Walter, I believe when you retired someone said something about how friendly you always were and I thought how very true that was. You were always helpful to me -- I was a doctoral student and had so many questions over the years. It seemed like I could always count on you for help. Later I taught in the lab and seemed to be buzzing around both the labs with one or another thing that needed taking care of. You were patient, kind, and knowledgeable in a self-effacing way. You were always smiling, always a gentleman. Anyway, when I look back on my recent years at SDSU in the GSPH, you bring back good memories. Take care, Marilyn Johnson-Kozlow colleague GSPH

16 04/10/08 Hi Walter, Sorry to hear of this new challenge - will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers, wishing you wellness and ease. Your helpful spirit is missed on campus, but I think of you fondly, and hope you are finding ways to enjoy each day of your life. May you be buoyed by the lifetime of friends you've made, and know that your presence made a difference for so many of us. Support and healing, Mary Mulvihill colleague GSPH

17 04/10/08 Say Walter! That DZ Akins Reuben Special you requested with pastrami and swiss on rye are on the way! How many pickles? Some fattening pastries? Will be in touch again soon:-) Take good care of yourself and best also to Mimi and Reid. Ann de Peyster colleague GSPH

18 04/10/08 Walter, you were one of the best hires that I made, you were and still are worth your weight in Gold! Hang tuff, buddy! Scutch Who? Scutch colleague SDSU GSPH

19 04/10/08 Hi Walter, Thank you for all your help duing my lab days at SDSU/GSPH ('99). Thank you for ensuring that we made the most of our education by always making sure that the lab was properly prepared. Learning preparedness training vicariously through you has helped me tremendously in my career. And you did all this with kindness and smiles - I will always remember your smile. You are a truly wonderful man and I wish you the strength to get through these difficult times. I will be praying for you and your family. Please know that you are loved and respected. MAHALO from the bottom of my heart. :) Tanya Watanabe (Ushiro) former student

20 04/11/08 Hi Walter: THANK YOU. Your cheerful nature always gave the lab a “non-lab” feeling. You instilled a level of confidence that help us all to develop positive attitudes about ourselves and the work we were attempting. You have been a major influence in my life right up to that thesis defense, and beyond. I wish you the very best. Raymond Corral (’99) Raymond Corral former student GSPH

21 04/11/08 Dear Walter: This is just one more battle, and I am sure you will win it. I am thankful to have had the opportunity to share four years with an honorable gentlemen like you, I always felt safe knowing that you were there, my prayers are with you and your family. Take care Mercedes Sierra friend GSPH

22 04/11/08 Hi Walter - Just to let you know that I am thinking about you. You were such a delight to work with. Always met the needs that the Dean's Office asked of you, which were many. Best of luck with your next chapter of life. I wish I would have had the chance to work with you more before you retired. Keep smiling... Barbara Gould friend

23 04/11/08 Dear Walter, One of the things that made my time as as graduate student much easier was your calm, efficient and helpful advice. Trying to juggle school, career and life, this meant an awful lot to me. Thanks again and I do wish you the very best. Warmest Regards, Gavin Magnuson former student GSPH

24 04/11/08 Hi, kiddo! Loopy Bird Buddy

25 04/11/08 Dear Walter, I am very grateful to have met you, Walter. You are an amazing person. I vividly recall the day when I first saw your office. The room was detailed and decorated with such a care. The room had so many stories. You have so many stories. We, the SDSU graduates, have countless stories about you and the laboratories you cared for. So, thank you for being there for us. keika okamoto former student

26 04/11/08 Hello Walter, My days at the GSPH seemed brief and at times I felt somewhat lost in the GSPH kitchen (labs). You were always a great resource for me in locating lab materials, instruction on using equipment, etc. Thank you for your guidance in the past. I hope for strength and peace for you and your family during difficult times. Take, Glenn Pacheco former student Genentech

27 04/11/08 Hi Walter, Having lived in the lab nights and weekends from 1990 - 1992, you greased the skids. Your laboratory competence and knowledge of machines and instruments was truly amazing. Nothing ever seemed to frustrate you. You are a man of unlimited patience. I was relieved again to know I’d be working with you on teaching the IH course/lab in ‘06. I wish you a speedy and easy recovery. Jeff Silvers former student Occupational Services, Inc.

28 04/11/08 Hi Walter, You were the best at what you did. We were all lucky to have you with us at the GSPH! Best to you always, Craig Molgaard colleague The University of Montana

29 04/11/08 Walter, Since I was not an IH student I did not work very much with you in the lab. However you always seemed to be there for me when I had a computer related problem. After I graduated and taught the ergonomics class for GSPH you were still there to help me with my computer related questions. I loved our chats and I always enjoyed hearing about your grandkids. I am so sorry to hear about your current battle. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I wish you good health. With love, Eisenberg Michelle former student Ergonomic Evaluation & Training

30 04/11/08 Dear Walter, You are simply the best human being God ever fashioned -- generous, kind, caring, genuine, and always good-natured. What can we do for you please?? Dale & I wish that we could give back to you what you have given to us -- your care, humor, sparkling wit, your uncommon integrity. Will you grant us our wish? You make hard days so much easier, because you empathize with everybody's trials & you always turned our lemons into the most magnificent lemonade! Please allow us the honor of giving back to you in some way -- kindest regards to Mimi & we hope to see you soon. Dale & I both love you very much -- with all our respect & admiration for the goodness that you have bestowed upon everybody that you have ever met. Sincerely, Peggy Chatfield MPH, friend Department of Chemistry

31 04/11/08 Hi Walter: Don't know if you still remember me, I went to the lab to study a lot in my first semester here, which was also the last semester you worked here. I often think about you in the last year after you retired. Something seems to be missing in the hallway in Hardy Tower. I miss you a lot! I am sorry to hear about the new challenge in your life. I sincerely give you all my best wishes and prayers from the bottom of my heart. I am gradating this in May. I am sure you will be glad to hear that! Melody Ding current student GSPH

32 04/11/08 Hi Walter! I'm working for County DEH Hazmat now! Sometimes I wish I was back in the lab though. I had SO much fun there. I have fond memories of how you were so amazingly helpful, encouraging and cheerful! Much luck and good thoughts! Sonja Ingmanson former student Public Health: EH&S

33 04/11/08 Hi Walter, Thank you for all your support while taking all those "awful" lab courses. I think they should have been held at the beach. I don't know how we would have done without all your help. My thoughts are with you Walter. Gerardo Ibanez, Toxicology former student Gerardo Ibanez former student toxicology

34 04/11/08 Dear Walter, My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. You are one of my fondest memories of my time in the GSPH (Grad 2005). You always had a big smile and courteous patient manner as you introduced me to the "Smart" Classroom technology and assisted me in the GSPH computer lab. I enjoyed our thoughtful conversations so much. It was great seeing you again at the 25th anniversary celebration last spring. This semester is my first one as PT faculty for the undergraduate PH program. It truly wasn't the same without your kind help in assisting me in becoming used to the newest Smart classroom technology this semester. Take care. Sandra Parkington former student Sharp Health Plan & New GSPH Part-Time Faculty

35 04/11/08 Hey Walter! So many pearls of wisdom you have shared with us... along with your terrific attitude, constant helpfulness and kindness and yes, so often a ton of giggles with your trivia quizzes, puns and other word play! Here's one for you: Tom and his younger sister were fighting. Their mother was tired of the fighting, and decided to punish them by making them stand on the same piece of newspaper in such a way that they couldn't touch each other. How did she accomplish this? Knowing you, you already got it! Well, their mother slid a newspaper under a door, Tom standing on one side and his sister standing on the other. Did I get you? : Jackie Walker colleague GSPH

36 04/11/08 Dear Walter, As a "returning student" I was sometimes the last student to "get it." Sometimes I felt discouraged about my abilities, but when I came to you for help, you were always patient and gave me a word of encouragement! It meant a lot to me. I miss your sweet smile and your music. Take care, Jan McClure former student Epidemiology

37 04/11/08 Hello Walter I will keep you in my daily thoughts and prayers. You helped me many times while I was a grad student and never once did you get frustrated at me for not knowing what I was doing. You are a very special person, with an enormous heart. Take care of you! Lindsay Radick former student Public Health-Epi

38 04/11/08 Walter, God bless you! Derek Boyd former student GSPH '03 - '05

39 04/11/08 Hey Walter! Thank you for all your help and informative discussions during the toxicology labs! I will keep you in my prayers. Best wishes! Anonymous GSPH Student current student

40 04/11/08 Walter, I too remember you fondly from the times I spent at the lab. Know that you have support and prayers from many people across the country. I hope that will help you on your road to recovery. Take care, Donald Haverkamp former student

41 04/11/08 Walter, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Strength and determination are key to beating cancer. Know that you are well-loved and well-liked and everyone is pulling for you, so you are not alone in your battle. Keep your chin up and keep smiling. :-D King Paula former student GSPH

42 04/11/08 Dear Walter, Some of my best memories of the GSPH include you, I certainly couldn't have finished without you (especially when it came to the ICP-MS). Though words cannot begin to express my appreciation and gratefulness to you, I can only say thank you from the bottom of my heart. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Lynnie Cua former student GSPH, 2003-2005

43 04/11/08 Walter, I was a beneficiary of your years of service with GSPH with you making life much easier during my time there as a student. I thank you. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Carey Tucker, PA-C, MPH former student Clinic For Digestive Diseases, Sun City, AZ

44 04/11/08 Dear Walter, Your display of kindness was comforting each time I requested your assistance. Thank you. I hope each day is filled with joy, happiness and laughter. Marie Boman former student GSPH-HP

45 04/11/08 Walter, Thank you for being so kind to me from the first day I meet you to the last day of your retirement. Even if you couldn't help me with some of Epi questions, you sure did try your best. Don't worry, you'll beat this! Another Epi Student current student

46 04/11/08 Hello Walter, I am so sorry to hear your current challenge, but given the optimistic attitude which you have always displayed when dealing adversity, I can think of no one who is better equiped to "meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same..." to quote one of my favorite phrases ever that deals with facing adversity. I truly wish for you and your family the best possible outcome. Don Fera colleague Instruction Technology Services, retired

47 04/12/08 Walter, I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you and hope that you and am wishing good thoughts for you and your family. Well wishes, Lisa Lisa Rickert former student Health Promotion

48 04/12/08 Walter, When I brought in pictures, movies, and information in strange electronic formats, I often couldn't figure out how to get the classroom technology to show these presentations. But you always cheerfully and skillfully found a way to project them, so the students never missed anything I brought. Without your calm competence, I could not have done my work as well. Bob Vryheid Adjunct Faculty Division of Epidemiology and Biostatistics

49 04/12/08 My Dearest Walter!!! I wish there were more people such as your self, ready to help and make sure everything is okay. Thanks for making my three years at SDSU a wonderful place to learn. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Luz Felix former student

50 04/12/08 Walter, Few people perform their job with a smile on their face...you succeeded to do so every moment. I thank you for always having a welcoming demeanor and never hesitating to provide assistance. My thoughts are with you and your family. Yvettw Canaba former student GSPH

51 04/12/08 Dear Walter, I hope you get well soon and can enjoy your retirement like you deserve to. Best wishes! Anne Trinh current student

52 04/12/08 Walter, We have such fond memories of you and remember and appreciate all the help you gave us during our years in grad school. We wish you the best and always keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Dahlia Fuentes & Luis Lechuga former student

53 04/12/08 Hello Walter, Always enjoyed your presence and help in our classes. You are an impressive scientist and great person. You are in my thoughts and prayers. The best of wishes to you and yours. Brad Hirakawa former student Pfizer

54 04/12/08 Walter, Thank you so much for your help while I was in the MPH program ('02-'04). I still remember your uplifting support and genuine smile. To be honest, I am too battling with cancer since last year although I am only 28 -- I was dignosed with one of the rarest types of cancer and am now getting a treatment in Boston. My wishes are with you. I know the treatment can be tough at times but you will get through it just fine. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you. Best wishes, Kenji Kenji Matsumoto former student Public Health

55 04/12/08 Dear Walter, I still remember the days when I with my classmates used the computer lab. You were always there and helped us. I will be praying that you will get well soon. Shuji Masuda former student GSPH

56 04/12/08 I am deeply saddened by the news. "Cancer", that word sends chills and a wrenching twist to my gut. It's a terrible word. All too familiar to me. Walter, I want you to know that you touched my life for the better. You were a kind and familiar face, always a smile, and a cheerful word eager to help everyone. I looked forward to seeing you and would often climb the stairs to the computer lab just to see who was in the lab and say "hi" to someone that would always say "hi" back. I miss seeing you on campus! This world need more kind big hearted people like you! Thank you for touching my life and making moments of my graduate experience better. Jennifer Jones-Fox current student GSPH MPH EPI

57 04/12/08 Hi Walter, I was quite sad when I found out you were retiring, but happy for you at the same time that you would finally have more time to do the other things you love. It is therefore sobering to hear about your recent diagnosis. You are in my thoughts and I deeply hope all will be all right. Take good care of yourself and be well. You were a real treasure in the department! Susan Cheng current student GSPH Epidemiology

58 04/12/08 Hi Walter, There was so much eager anticipation of your arrival in 1986 (my first year as a student at GSPH)...so much hope that everything would be wonderfully improved in the lab. Then you arrived and we all were delighted as you eagerly attended our classes, asked a zillion relevant questions and learned what every single GSPH student needed to know (not what a single student would need to know to graduate...but what every single student for the next two decades would need, regardless of his or her specialty!). Back then it was clear you would be a success in technical lab management. The notes posted this week are clear testimony to your success in many more important ways, too. Thank you! Whitney [Fay] Long former student Toxicology

59 04/12/08 Hi Walter, The last time we spoke, you were planning for your retirement. Before I realized it, you had already retired and I never got to say thanks for all of the help that you gave to me in getting my thesis work done. Without your support and just being available to ask questions, I probably would still be in the lab today. I am still a bit embarrassed about flooding the downstairs lab from the upstairs lab, but looking back it is a little funny (only because luckily there was no major damage). A bunch of my former classmates have talked and we are all pulling for you. Best Wishes, Darryl Yorkey former student

60 04/13/08 Dear Walter, You daily emanated a delightful, helpful, and encouraging spirit in the computer labs. Take heart with courage and we all stand behind you during this challenging time. You will be in my prayers. Jenny Chu former student GSPH

61 04/13/08 Hi Walter, Thinking of you and wishing you the best. I suspect that with a joke and a smile you are still making the most of each day. Just to let you know my news after my struggle with cancer 10 years ago -- I am working in public health in Nicaragua helping with cervical cancer prevention and hospital equipment support. Take special care of yourself the way you always took care of us, colleague and former student, Sue Howe, MPH Susa Howe colleague GSPH and College of Sciences

62 04/13/08 Hi Walter! I could not have gone through those first days of teaching without you. You were always ready to help and with a smile. Thank you so very much. You are in my prayers. maria lourdes reyes Adjunct Faculty GSPH

63 04/14/08 Walter-you are one of the finest people I have ever met. I admire, and have always admired, many things about you, including your being consistently positive, ethical, and in tune with environmental issues and nature at all levels. You are also genuinely kind...Thank you for brightening up so many of our days and lives...my thoughts and prayers will always include you. Warm regards, Joni Mayer friend GSPH

64 04/14/08 Dear Walt: I have you in my thoughts and prayers, even though I haven't seen you lately. You are special. Your friend, Phillip White friend SDSU Library

65 04/14/08 Walter, the Chemical Engineer, the armchair philosopher and fan of Albert Einstein, the only Engineer I know of that is able to fix computer problems by just walking by the computer i.e. by your mere presence! My computer and I miss that presence. Walter, my belief as you know in regard to cancer is that anything that goes amiss inside the body can be healed. I'm sticking with that in my thoughts, hopes and wishes for you. Many blessings with love and healing light. Florencia Florencia Davis friend Graduate School of Public Health

66 04/14/08 Hi Walter, I am so surprised by this news and want to let you know I am thinking about you and hoping you bounce back from this quickly. You are such a wonderful man, and don't know anyone who went the extra mile for us students in our desperate moments more than you did!! You are dearly missed on campus and am wishing you all the best in the journey ahead. Judy Harbertson current student GSPH

67 04/14/08 Dear Walter. When I read the amazing array of letters posted, I wish I could have checked off all of the above categories: friend, plus colleague, former student, current student, et al. I realize that our brief encounters were all too brief and that I am the worse off for not having worked with and known you better over the past few years. You certainly tolerated the conversations about WWU that engaged Mimi and I so often. I know that you are approaching the current problems with a rational, calm demeanor which is an inspiration to all of the rest of us, and you have led a life that deserves our grateful thanks. I hope each day that I will hear that you are beating the odds; you deserve it. Love to you both. Sam and Joyce Porter friend Western Washington University

68 04/14/08 Hi Walter, I have no doubt that you can fight this tough battle and get your health back. Your positive attitude and wonderful personality can overcome anything. You were an asset to all of us, without you we all felt lost. You were a great friend and colleague and we hope to have you back… Kamran Ghoreishi former student GSPH-Toxicology

69 04/14/08 Walter, Thank you for all that you have done for the faculty, staff and, especially, the students of GSPH. I greatly admire your standards of ethics, sense of personal responsibility, and integrity. We miss you here every single day in so many different ways, but mostly because of just who you are as a person and colleague. Best wishes to you, Walter. Don Slymen colleague GSPH

70 04/14/08 Dear Walter, I'm so sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis. You have helped me so much when I was trying to work and go to school for my MPH-Epi degree at the same time, that I cannot thank you enough for everything. Remember how I used to beg you for a few more labtime minutes so that I can work on SAS/SPSS? You were gracious enough to always give in to my requests, even if it meant that you'd miss your bus, and get home late. When I heard that you retired, I felt bad that I didn't have a chance to tell you how much I appreciated all your hard work and assistance thru all my yrs in GSPH. Thanks Walter! May God always be with you and take good care of you, so you won't be in so much pain. I'll pray for you too! Cyd Sartoris GSPH Class of 2006 UCSD Medical Center

71 04/15/08 I ticked the above category "friend'. I hope to be that as long as possible. Hope we can get together often,Walt. Lewis Fischbein friend

72 04/15/08 Walter, Your kind demeanor and helpful smiles were missed when you retired. Wishing you the best. Sincerely, Tyler Smith colleague GSPH

73 04/15/08 Hi Walter, miss you in the GSPH, the place will never quite be the same without having you there. Please know that we are all thinking of you, we probably shouldn't have "let" you retire! Very best wishes, Steve. Steve Williams colleague CHHS Dean's Office

74 04/15/08 Walter, Always enjoyed your smile and your humor and always appreciated your assistance and advise when our techs were not around. I see your smile shinning through this. Sylvia Telafaro staff Social Work

75 04/15/08 Hey Walt and Mimi! You guys rock!!! I think of you both daily and pray for you whenever God brings you to mind! We love you and are pulling for both of you! Big hugs! Your Washington friend, Darla Darla Boyer friend

76 04/15/08 Dear Walt, I just want you to know that I will take care of Mimi and be a good friend to her. I enjoy talking with you and seeing that sweet twinkle in your eyes every now and then. Thanks for your light in the world. Lynne Russo friend

77 04/16/08 Walter, I didn't know you had retired. I will be retiring at the end of this year as well. I always enjoyed running into you on campus as you were always so bright and cheerfull. I know this up-beat attitude will help with the challenges currently confronting you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prays. Anita Harbert colleague School of Social Work

78 04/16/08 Hey there, Walter! While I was glad to get news of you, I am sorry that news includes the "Big C" for you. Surely you could have chosen a better hobby for your retirement? I want you to know you're not alone. I am a survivor of three different kinds of cancer: End-stage T-cell lymphoma (1983)--er, so much for "end-stage", eh?; Acute Lymphocytic Leukemia (1984); and Breast Cancer (2003). I've been through surgeries (the sharp end of the stick), chemo (chemo-coladas), and radiation (gettin' a buzz outa life); all I can say is, "I feel your pain". Don't give up hope. Most importantly, don't lose your sense of humor-where did I put that thing? If ever you just want to chat with someone who has "been there" call me! Hugs! 619.594.109 Carol Redding colleague Telecommunications & Network Services

79 04/16/08 That number is: 619.594.1093, Walter! Take good care of you. Carol Redding colleague Telecommunications & Network Services

80 04/16/08 How do you address an issue like this about someone you really like & would want to know for about a hundred more years. As is I am envious of those of you who have had the opportunity to be in his company more than I. As a Bro-in-law, living in another local I at best only got to know Walter through some emails & a few visits. What I do know about Walter is that he is human, like us all & has his human side, makes mistakes; but is kind, forgiving, intelligent, considerate & always striving to learn more & passionate about sharing the info. If miracles can happen, then this would be the time for a good one! See you sometime, Walter, either here or 'there'. Bernie Labrucherie Bro in Law

81 04/16/08 I also wanted to add a thank you for putting up this site for everyone. ALWAYS the best wishes. May your life be a pleasant walk beside beautiful rivers and singing birds. Annoni mouse friend

82 04/16/08 Walter, I am happy for this opportunity to let you know what an impression your life has made on me. Although we didn't work closely together, I can never recall a time when you weren't smiling. You were always there to help. You have a way of handling emergencies with ease just like they're a routine task. What a pleasure it was to interact with you from time to time in Hepner Hall. Thank you for all your help! I am a Christian, and although this isn't a pleasant time for you, be assured that God will never, no never, leave you helpless nor forsake nor let you down. (Heb. 13:5) God bless you. Avis Anderson friend School of Social Work (retired)

83 04/16/08 It's nice to read all the lovely things people have to say about you, Walt. I read somewhere that the value of a life can be measured not only by how one loves, but by how much one is loved by others. It's obvious your life has had great value. You're always in my thoughts. Kathy Dufault friend San Diego Public Library

84 04/16/08 Walt- Wishing you comfort and beautiful days ahead. It has been a pleasure knowing you. A positive attitude, kindness and wit all wrapped up in the same package. That's you. It has been wonderful counting you and Mimi among my friends. Sincerely, Trudy Snell friend

85 04/16/08 Walt, since you and I have been friends for the last 5 years we have enjoyed dinner, bon-fires and playing Scrabble and Scattgories. It is my pleasure spending time with you and Mimi. Regardless who wins at Scrabble or Scattgories, I enjoy your company when playing games or eating dinner together because you brought to the table wit, smarts and a lucky player. My thoughts and wishes are with you at this difficult time in your life. Keep your chin up and keep your fondest of memories cemented in your mind and body. I consider you as life's greatest treasure in friendship. A handshake and hugs to you. ray bronco friend

86 04/16/08 Walt:you are one of the kindnest and nicest people I know. You have touched my life in so many ways. Not only are you and Mimi my favorite people to play games with and share a meal, I have the best conversations with you while we are waiting for our turn. You discuss "things" with me for which we have no real answers and make me ponder things in different ways. It has been great having you pop into Benjamin so often these 4 years. Mere words cannot express what I feel in my heart for you and Mimi. Wherever life takes you, a part of you will always remain with me. Love and friendship, Linda Moskovics friend

87 04/17/08 I am so happy to have known you Walter. From the very first day I drove down 150 miles from Victorville to pick up the SAS program package with my family, you welcomed us with a warm smile. When I think about my years at SDSU my first thought is no doubt you. I especially remember the many hours weighing out chemicals in the back of the upstairs lab; the many times you stopped by to just say hello and share some great stories. Your intelligence, kindness, warmth and sincerity will never be forgotten. Thank you! Donata Nilsen former student GSPH

88 04/17/08 Walter, Now that you're retired, I will miss seeing your friendly face at the window up here on the 4th floor of the Life Sciences building. My very best wishes to you and those around you - everyone here at the Biology Department is thinking of you. Tom Gibson colleague Biology Department

89 04/17/08 Hi Walt, I'm sorry to here of your illness and hope you can lick it. I miss being able to call you up with a request for a favor. And your positive outlook too. My best to you. Jim Zimmer colleague Biology

90 04/17/08 Hi Walter, I'm glad we got to meet again a while back after all those years I have been out of GSPH. I hope for the best with your treatment; my prayers are with you. Thanks again for your help with my thesis; I think of everyone at GSPH that helped when I take the book off the shelf and dust it off. Your Friend - Nic Nicholas Haproff former student Occupational &Environmental Health

91 04/17/08 Hello, Walter, I was one of your middle aged students who didn't know a lick about computers or stats when I started the program. No matter how clueless my questions, you always had a patient and informative answer. You probably intuited how much you were "the rock" that kept some of the student body from panicking! Thanks to getting through the program, I was able to start a new career at 50, really an unexpected and intriguing twist in my life. Some people are natural Buddhas. I think you are one of them. May peace, equanimity, and the subtle joys of each day support you and your family at this time. With gratitude and affection, Elaine Pierce former student County of San Diego

92 04/19/08 Dear Walter. Greetings from South Africa. When I look back at GSPH, I have many memories, but those days and nights in the computer lab are some of the fondest. Your measured and consistent support for students and their (often repeated) questions about statistical software was precious. You are and will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Banerji Subroto former student GSPH/Epidemiology

93 04/20/08 Dear Walter, I am was so happy to hear about your retirement, but I am saddened to hear that you are ill. I always appreciated your warm smile and your friendly hello whenever our paths crossed on campus. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. I will remember how knowing you enhanced my experience at SDSU. May God bless and comfort you and your family during this time. Vicki Schimmeyer former student GSPH - Epidemiology

94 04/21/08 Walter, I know that I am not alone when I say I never would have finished my thesis project without you. I'll never forget your positive attitude, tireless dedication, and friendship that was extended to everyone in the GSPH. Peace be with you and your family, Rick White former student Isis Pharmaceuticals

95 04/21/08 Walter, Wanted to send a note when you retired to tell you how much you would be missed. I also wanted to thank you for your assistance in conducting GSPH Lab tours each summer for all the high school students during that >10-year stretch of annual summer internships. Good luck. JIC Jeanette Candelaria current student

96 04/21/08 Walter, you read that right GSPH. I am now an adjunct faculty. See what happens when you leave the joint, OEH fall to pieces and the let riff-raff like me in. I have many positive memories hanging out with you in the wet and computer labs; talking about school, your grandkids and life. It was certainly odd being on campus this spring and you not being around. If you are up to it I would love to hear from you and I will fill you in on all the details of this conspiracy. I wish you and your family the best. Jackson Gross former student Southern California Coastal Water Research Project and Graduate School of Public Health

97 04/21/08 Hi Walter, I want to thank you for all of your help in the lab during my time in the GSPH and for always being such a supportive mentor, I can't tell you how incredibly important that was to me. Your positive encouragement, smiles, and thirst for learning have always inspired me. I have enjoyed many interesting discussions with you, thank you for always taking the time to share your knowledge and experiences... I miss getting to talk with you! I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and I wish you and your family all of the best. Hilary Brooks former student GSPH

98 04/21/08 Hi Walter. I'm very sorry to hear about the recent news. A mutual friend sent me word. I want to send you a brief note to let you know that I'm thinking about you and your family and that I will pray for your well being and speedy recovery. I have always remember you after graduating from GSPH because of your gentleness, kindness, and helpfulness toward everyone that you've touched. The smile at the top of this website is so fitting because that is how I have remembered you. A lot of hugs, smiles, and kisses are sent your way as evident from this board from all those who know and love you, me included. Please get well and I look forward to a chance to speak to you soon. Christopher Nguyen former student

99 04/21/08 Hi Walter, I miss all the fond memories we had in the office. I could still remember right before 8am you'd stop by and make sure I was ok and and then we start talking about our weekends then about work. Remember the GSPH website, the electronic course evals, my computer and projector problems/errands, you were always there to assist! Oh, not to forget the storage room too! You've always been very helpful not just to me, but to everybody. Your caring and sincere attitude is such a positive influence. I want to thank you for your kind invitation after I had the surgery. You and Mimi were very thoughtful of getting us altogether at your house. I wish that you may overcome what you are going through. With love and prayers, Gemma Mihalko friend Public Health

100 04/22/08 I echo all the great things people have said about you, but I really want to emphasize how you helped me (us) get through those tough four hour I.H. lab sessions! You were a joy to learn from ad work with. Best of luck to you, Walter, and be strong! Paul Hemmick former student National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration

101 04/22/08 Dear Walter, Thank goodness we retired together! I cannot count the number of times you "saved me" and my computer. It just would not be the same without you at the GSPH. I talked to Rofiee the other day, and he told me what a nice visit he had with you. Perhaps, I could stop by and visit sometime, if that isn't too much of an imposition. As I get older I realize more and more how fragile life is, and how often it is so unfair. I'm sure you are facing this challenge with the same grace and calm that you approached all of the other challenges of your life. Hope that poinsettia you planted is still doing well. Take care, and I will talk to you again soon. Karen Senn colleague GSPH

102 04/22/08 Walter- I have many fond memories of life in Hardy Tower, the friends that were made and the IH knowledge that was shared but perhaps what I remember most of my time at SDSU was your dedication to us and the program. Since my graduation in 1998, I have since relocated to NC but have not forgotten all that I learned from you and Dr. Samimi. You really made a positive impression on me with your devotion to us, work ethic and all that you tirelessly gave. Thank you and I wish you well. Lee Willmon former student Novartis

103 04/23/08 Hi, Walter! I just wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for all of your help in the computer lab & your friendliness in the hallways while I was a student at GSPH (1998-2000). I was a frequent computer lab user, and you always made our lives easier. I wish the best for you! Know you have support from so many of us who YOU supported in getting through the MPH program! Julie Pickrel former student

104 04/24/08 Hi Walter, Sorry to hear you are sick. As a colleague I have always admired your ability to remain a gentleman in the middle of conflict. The School of Public would never have flourished to the degree it has without your effort in the laboratories, in securing and defending the need for valuable equipment and most of all the mentoring of students. It was my pleasures having the opportunity to work with you. You are tops in my book. I will always remember you. Work hard at getting better. I'll keep you in my prayers. Dolores Wozniak colleague CHHS

105 04/24/08 Hi Walter, I just wanted to thank you for all of your help in the laboratory. I miss talking to you about "magical" New Mexico. That is now one of the places that I am going to visit sometime in the near future. Well, I hope you are staying positive and know that there are many people praying for you. Thanks to your expertise and kindness, you helped make my time at SDSU a more positive experience. Best regards, Frank Gonzales former student Public Health, Toxicology

106 04/25/08 Walter, I am happy to add my thoughts about you to the wonderful things that have already been said. In academia, we often talk about the co-curricular environment, i.e., all of the things that exist outside the classroom that contributes to the education of the whole student. Essentially, that means that the environment is the glue that holds the educational endeavor together. Walter, you are that glue for your school. In effect, you are simply a star in our CHHS firmament...and a SDSU treasure. I can't think of anyone who has had more effect on student learning and their self-esteem. I know that the challenges you and your family are facing are difficult ones. Please know that you are in out thoughts and hearts. Olita Harris colleague CHHS

107 04/27/08 Hi Walter, So many us think of you when remembering our Grad School days, and those thoughts remind us of your kindness and being so helpful. You really made our journeys a little more easier. Thanks for giving us the good memories. Ric Encarnacion former student MPH EH

108 04/29/08 Walter – I am so sorry that you are not well. It has occurred to me of late that when we reach that age, when there is more behind us than in front of us, that we can’t help but assess what we’ve done, what we’ve contributed. For you that should be easy. You were always, day after day, a bright spot on the campus, making our life easier, more fun, more interesting, more worthwhile. I know you touched all of us in this way. And, hundreds of students as well. The ripples from that reverberate forever, with each of the lives you have impacted made better and then passed on from them, to others. While, some come and go and nothing is changed, you came made us all better than we were before. Rich Reed Richard colleague Nursing and the Dean's Office

109 04/30/08 Walter, I'm glad that folks took the trouble to find my email address. Walter, when I think of my time at SDSU, my fondest memories are about colleagues like yourself who made the School a stronger place because of their caring about the quality of student education and commitment to students. Your help in making my tasks easier was greatly appreciated. All your efforts provided the many people you interacted with each day brighter and positive making difficult situations manageable. You and your family are in my thoughts. Warmest regards. Kenneth Bart colleague SDSU

110 05/01/08 waltz!!! seems like yesterday the patients at Sehome Convelscent were calling 'waltz haynow!!' You brought them so much joy! Even now, some 30 yrs later, I see you're still bringing joy to everything around you. I wanted to wish you the very best in your fight. I'm thinking of you and I'm sending joy your way!! all our best, kate, john and jeanette silvernale kate silvernale friend

111 05/02/08 Walter, I have known you longer than anyone else here! As your little sister, I want to thank you for being the BEST big brother ever. I want you to know that I have always looked up to you as a great example of a human being. From you I learned to love nature, creatures, the environment and to care for other people. Thank you for that. You have a wonderful loving wife, Mimi. Your son, Reid, and his family give you reason to be very proud. I love you very much and, yes, I will pray for you always. Evelyn Woodruff Sister

112 05/04/08 Walter, You shaped my life in a way you never imagined, for in addition to admiring you as one of the finest people I've ever met, I envied you for the obvious love and respect you had for Mimi. I cherished that and wanted it for myself. Thanks to your example I had such high standards that my dating life sucked! But eventually I found what I was looking for, a woman who was a self-contained unit in her own right. My own version of Mimi. And our life together here in the hills of Vermont is full of joy and reality of the sort I never expected to find in life. Thank you for your friendship...and for your example. Peter, Tamara and the goldens whose lives you've shared vicariously: Tadcaster, Barley, and Tuppence the Wonderbitch Peter Burke friend Dept of Fine Rural Life

113 05/05/08 Walt We had a great journey together in college. We laughed a lot, did incredibly crazy things together, grew up together from boys to men, and shared the nights both our sons were born with each other. We covered many miles together on foot, on bikes, on motorcyle, and our many walks to class together. Time and distance separated us physically, but you are often in my thoughts and memories. I remember our bus trips to Children's hospital together, "stolen" christmas trees, blowguns, pumpkin smashing from the stadium, all night bull sessions, but mostly laughing. You are a great, honorable, funny, intelligent person, and I will always consider you to be my best friend. I send you my best wishes forever. keith "theKD" wilson friend

114 05/05/08 Dear Walt, When I think of you after all these years I see a smile and hear your gentle laughter. It seems that over the years many many others have been enriched by your keen intellect, touched by your many acts of kindness and grateful to have been able to bask in the warmth of your friendship. You are and ever will be a part of our lives. Keith and I send our love and smiles. To you, Mimi, Reid and his family also Love, Cathy Wilson PS: Do you remember Mohican and the time Jody released the brake on my dad's car and it drifted backwards toward the gorge? Last year mother reminisced that you were as white as a sheet after the car was stopped by a tree. She was touched by your sensitivity. Keith doesn't remember this. Do you? Cathy Wilson friend

115 05/26/08 Walt, Knowing you has been a real joy and an inspiration for me during the last 6 or 7 years. You have a peacefulness of spirit that is contagious and I've been so happy to have it wash over me from time to time. I'll always remember how my inquisitiveness resulted in you grabbing a book and researching the answer, no matter what the topic. What a true and loving teacher, mentor and friend you are! It's hard to understand why things have to be so difficult for you now, but it's uplifting to see how you confront the situation with such dignity and strength. Walter, I have learned so much from you, as have so many others from what I am reading here on this website! Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us. You're much loved! Susan Baltazar friend Seal Beach, CA

116 05/28/08 Hi Walter! I am writing to say hello and wish you well! You have such a wonderful way about you. You always make others feel welcome. Thank you for your gentle kindness and your thoughtful conversation. We still have to have our intellectual debate about the book "The Celestine Prophecy", remember? ;)! I wish for you health and comfort! Thank you for being such a special soul. Pavlas Traci colleague SDSU GSPH

117 06/03/08 Hi Walt, Just want you to know you are in my thoughts. Mimi is a special friend and has shared loving thoughts about you over the years. Linda Salem Linda Salem friend

118 07/29/08 With much regret and sadness, Walter Hayhow passed away peacefully this morning, Tuesday, July 29, 2008, after his courageous battle with cancer. The world had just lost the nicest person one could imagine. Rest in peace. Rofiee Harun friend Dean's Office, CHHS

119 07/29/08 Rest in peace good man. You will be missed very, very much. Brad Brad Hirakawa former student Pfizer

120 07/29/08 Our sympathy and comforting thoughts to Mimi, Reid and Walt's family. He is now at peace. A wonderful person which we will miss. As ever, Trudy & Ed Snell friend

121 07/29/08 Walter and his family, I am truly sorry, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. As I fight this illness everyday, it is very sad for me hear this news. Kenji Matsumoto former student Epidemiology

122 07/29/08 With deepest sympathy and warmest thoughts for Walter's family and close friends . . . his kindness, humor, and great warmth will be truly missed. Rest in peace. Susan Cheng current student GSPH JDP Epi

123 07/29/08 Dear Mimi, Reid and family, I'm so sorry. Walt was the gentlest of men. Mimi, I'm glad Keith had some time with you both. Reid. It's been so many years. Keith told me what he could of you and your family. I know Walt was pleased for you and that your caring and presence must have meant so much to him. My deepest sympathy. Cathy Wilson Wilson Cathy friend

124 07/29/08 I'm am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Walter. He was a wonderful, kind hearted man who loved his family and friends. I could have never made it through my first semester as a Master's student if it were not for Walter. My thoughts are with his family. Mahela Sanguinetti former student Public Health

125 07/29/08 Upon receiving the news of the passing of this wonderful man, Tamara and I took a chilled bottle of champagne to a large boulder at the edge of our pond. Surrounded by our golden retrievers, who were uncharacteristically somber, we raised our flutes and toasted his memory and his special link to us as the trout splashed nearby. Walter, who understood our fondness for bubbly, was surely smiling in appreciation. Good bye, old friend... Peter Burke friend

126 07/29/08 Walter was kind and selfless soul. Without him, myself and many other IH students would never have made it through our labs. His support, explanations, and patience were incredible. Thank you Walter from the bottom of my heart. Andy Kowalewsky former student SDG&E

127 07/30/08 Dear Mimi and family-I only found out about this site after hearing the sad news. I echo what many have said about his kindness, wit, intelligence. Sometimes we may not have a lot of time with a person but that time can still be life altering. I will remember his incredible ablitity to really listen and cut through to the essence, his calmness and honesty. A rare but truely authentic person. I will always cherish my last visit-sitting in the sun listening to the birds and talking with Walt. I am sorry I can't be there now for you Mimi. With Love. Linda linda brannan friend

128 07/30/08 Walt, We will miss you deeply.I am so sorry that your granddaughters (Erin and Claire) and I will miss continuing to learning about the natural world and science from you. I loved watching you as you discussed with Claire the fascinating world of beetles. She wasn't yet convinced. She needed to be a bit older. Thank you for your caring, patience, love of teaching and enthusiasm for learning. love, Debbie Hayhow daughter-in-law

129 07/30/08 Dear Reid, The sound of a cricket. Oh, my how perfect. Then the pictures . . . you snuggled with your dad. I remember you at the age. I loved the pensive picture of Walt. Beneath his cheerful good-nature was that keen, thoughtful mind. That picture captures it so well. When the song spoofing our attempts at immortality started . . . well . . . . I just followed along. Then Thoreau. Perfect. I know Walt would love this. I can hear his gentle laughter. Love from an old friend, Cathy Wilson Cathy Wilson friend

130 07/30/08 Dear Mimi and Reid; My sadness at Walter’s passing will soon be replaced by the lasting memory of kind and gentle spirit. We are all better for having worked with him and marveling at his dedication to our students. All the money in the world could not have purchased the love and caring that you have given Walter. No one could want a finer family that he has. May he rest in peace. Peddecord Mike colleague GSPH

131 07/31/08 A cool guy, I liked his snapshots throughout his life, lived a full and amazing life rich with gentle connections to other human beings. Anonymous Anonymous observerA Department of Departments

132 07/31/08 Dear Mimi, Reid, Debbie, Claire and Erin, I'm deeply saddened by the news of Walter's death. Please accept my sincere sympathy. Walt was a brilliant, kind, and generous soul who set an amazing example for all of us to champion human rights and environmental conservation. I wish I could be in San Diego with you to offer my love and support. Please know that thoughts and prayers are being sent your way as you cope with Walter's death. Reid, thank you for posting the beautiful video tribute to your dad. It brought tears, as you can imagine! Jean Ollis Niece

133 07/31/08 Dear Mimi and Reid, I'll always remember the first time I met Walt -- he was walking up to my house with Mimi just before Reid and Debbie's wedding day in 1992. Since then, I haven't had many occasions to see him, but every one was a wonderful one for me. Walt's wit and intelligence were strong, but it's his smile and laugh I most clearly remember. They were both infectious. I'm sorry I can't see him again. Reid and Mimi, you were more courageous than any of the rest of us can imagine in your care for Walt during these recent times. I'm sure Walt knew he was loved very much. My very best to you both. Mary Lea Dodd friend

134 07/31/08 Dear Mimi, Reid and other Hayhows, The labs and halls of the GSPH feel more still this week than I can remember. But Walter's memory and good works will remain prominent here for a very very long time. Those of us who worked with him over the years will be reminded of his tremendous organizational, technical, and teaching abilities wherever we go about our business here. Labels and instructional signs in his neat, clear hand. Countless student thesis copies expressing gratitude for his help and support. I hope you already know how much Walter was appreciated here and by so many. Although sorry to see him retire, we clearly understood his priority to spend more time with family. Thank you for sharing him with us as long as you did. Ann de Peyster colleague Graduate School of Public Health

135 08/06/08 As I read through all of the comments before Walter's death, I realized that I knew so little about Walter's life. We had wonderful conversations about the philosophy of science and yet I never knew he had children and grandchildren, that he had gone to school for both medicine and engineering, that he was a naturalist at heart...I could go on an on. This has been a very painful reminder to me that our time on earth is short. No one is going to put your publications on your tombstone! In Walter's honor, ask people you work with about their lives, tell the people you love that you adore them, stop and check out the beetle on the pavement, etc...etc... Karen Coleman colleague Kaiser Permanente Southern California

136 08/07/08 Thank you Walter for everything you have done. You will truly be missed, but our fond memories of you will always remain in all our hearts. Jarvis Gaspar friend GSPH